gridlore: Doug with Kirsten, both in nice clothes for a wedding. (Me - with Kirsten)
Douglas Berry ([personal profile] gridlore) wrote2015-07-08 12:57 pm

OK, I need your honest opinions.

Next year [personal profile] kshandra and I will be marking our 25th wedding anniversary. Despite my recent meltdown over my birthday (and I apologize to anyone I offended with that), we want to do something special, life a cruise.

The problem is we're still poor. But Kiri deserves a real vacation. She has been so awesome for so long, she has earned a big ship and a fruity drink with an umbrella in it. I actually told her the other day that I don't care that we were looking at Alaskan cruises, she was getting a goddamn fruity drink with a goddamn umbrella in it!

My question is this: what would your reaction be to me starting a GoFundMe for this trip? I hate begging, I hate admitting that I can't do it, but to really have a great trip, we'll need help. Would you be offended? Think we're asking too much? Spread the word?

I'm still in a weird place emotionally. But Kirsten and I will celebrate a quarter century of marriage with something more that dinner at La Fondue. Kirsten and I will go someplace awesome (I hear Alaska is just filled with nature from reliable sources) and I will do whatever it takes to make this happen.

Other options we've discussed are a trip to Washington D.C. (she's never been) and possibly a Mexican Riviera cruise. The fantasy trip, which would take around $50,000 to do right, which is probably out of reach.

So, friends, Romans, countrymen. Your opinions on doing a GoFundMe for a vacation for our 25th?
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[personal profile] murphymom 2015-07-08 09:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Go for it! We all know what you two have dealt with and would love to help if we can.
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[personal profile] murphymom 2015-07-08 09:32 pm (UTC)(link)
And, FWIW - Los Cabos is fantastic AND I guarantee they have fruity drinks with umbrellas.
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[personal profile] kshandra 2015-07-08 10:23 pm (UTC)(link)
And Zucaritas for breakfast! ;-) (I'll explain later, Doug...)
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[personal profile] murphymom 2015-07-08 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Not to mention Fruti Lupis
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[personal profile] mdlbear 2015-07-09 03:05 am (UTC)(link)
Do it!
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[personal profile] claidheamhmor 2015-07-09 11:08 am (UTC)(link)
Go for it! 25 - that'll be damn impressive!
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[personal profile] amaebi 2015-07-10 06:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Not offended, will contribute $100.
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[personal profile] freyjaw 2015-07-13 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Do it. The Mexican Riviera was fabulous. (I had my birthday at sea a long time ago when I was a cardiac nurse.)